The findom glossary
The filthy vocabulary of your own destruction. Every word designed to make surrender feel inevitable.
- Paypig / Pay Pig
- A submissive who derives pleasure from sending money to a dominant. Often used as a humiliating pet name.
- Finsub
- Financial submissive. The broader term for someone who submits through money.
- Findom
- Financial domination. A power exchange built on control of money.
- Findomme / FinDomme
- A woman who practices financial domination. Goddess, Mistress, or Owner in the fantasy.
- Tribute
- Money or value given with nothing tangible expected back. The core act of financial submission.
- Drain
- Systematically emptying a paypig's wallet. Slow drip, or a fast hard drain.
- Wallet Rape
- Extreme consensual-non-consent style drain language. Fantasy and roleplay only.
- Cash Meet
- An in-person handoff of cash. Higher risk than an online send.
- Reimbursement
- Paying a bill the dominant sends: shoes, a flight, dinner. The receipt is the only reward.
- Allowance
- What a finsub is permitted to keep after tithing, in the fantasy.
- Human ATM
- A paypig treated as an on-demand source of cash.
- Money Slave
- A finsub who has given up financial autonomy to one or more dominants.
- Tribute Whore
- A derogatory label for a finsub who sends to many people and stays loyal to none.
- Good Boy / Good Pig
- Verbal reward after a send. Often the only aftercare in this fantasy.
- Ignore Session
- Paying to be ignored while the dominant goes on with her day.
- Rinse
- A quick, often one-time heavy drain. Rinsed means broke and used.
- Cash Cow
- A paypig with disposable income who can be asked again.
- Debt Contract
- A written or spoken agreement to owe a sum over time. Still fantasy unless you actually send.
- Blackmail Fantasy
- Roleplay that uses threats of exposure. Keep it fictional. Real blackmail is a crime.
- Silent Send
- Tributing with no message and no expectation of a reply.
- Leaderboarding
- Competing with other accounts to have sent the most. Only signed-in pigs are listed here.
- Piggy Bank
- Savings that exist, in the fantasy, only to be drained.
- Session
- A stretch of chat, voice, or video that usually involves sends.
- Initial Tribute
- A first send some dominants require before they will speak to you.
- Unowned
- A finsub who is not claimed by anyone. Free-range, in the slang.
- Aftercare
- A rare kind word or acknowledgment after a heavy send. In findom it is often minimal or absent.
- Bill Pay
- Directly covering her bills, subscriptions, or expenses as tribute.
- Cash Slave
- A finsub whose entire purpose in the fantasy is providing cash.
- Coffee Send
- A small daily or regular tribute framed as buying her coffee or small luxuries.
- Debt
- The fantasy state of owing her more and more with no realistic way to repay.
- Direct Deposit
- Regular automatic or scheduled sends straight into her account.
- Financial Sadism
- Taking pleasure in causing real financial strain or 'pain' through drains.
- Foot Tribute
- Sending money specifically tied to foot worship or foot-related content.
- Gift Card
- Digital gift cards sent as an easy, trackable form of tribute.
- Goddess Worship
- Treating sends as acts of devotion or religious-style worship.
- High-Value Pig
- A paypig perceived as having significant income worth targeting repeatedly.
- Low-Value Pig
- Humiliating label for someone with little disposable income to give.
- Maintenance
- Regular smaller sends to keep her satisfied between bigger drains.
- Milking
- Repeated, systematic draining over days or weeks.
- Ownership
- The ultimate fantasy state of being completely financially owned.
- Pay for Attention
- Sending specifically to earn replies, time, or acknowledgment.
- Private Send
- A discreet tribute with no public trace or announcement.
- Public Send
- Tributing in a visible way so others can see the submission.
- Ruin
- Being financially destroyed or 'ruined' in the fantasy.
- Sacrifice
- Giving up something personally meaningful (time, comfort, plans) to send.
- Shopping Slave
- Being instructed to purchase specific items for her.
- Simp Tax
- An extra send just for the privilege of existing in her space.
- Spoil
- Buying her luxuries, treats, or expensive items as tribute.
- Total Financial Control
- Fantasy of her controlling every spending decision in your life.
- Worship Tax
- A recurring payment simply for the right to serve or admire her.
- Wallet Control
- The fantasy that she decides when and how much you spend.
- Wallet Fuck
- Intense, vulgar language for an aggressive drain.